On January 1, 1971, New York City—as measured in Central
Park—received over six inches of snow. Thanks to the wealth of information on
the Internet, I was able to confirm my memory of that very snowfall. There was
enough of the white stuff for my best friend and I to build a snowman in what
we in the neighborhood affectionately called “the lot.” We got out the sled,
too, and descended a hill into what was a filled-in portion of the once visible
and meandering Tibbetts Brook. That swampy snapshot was before my time, but at
least I got to experience the lot.
In the early 1970s, there were still some empty lots in the
Bronx and the other boroughs of New York City. However, their days were numbered.
Most of the remaining lots would be built upon—and sooner rather than later. In
the name of progress, the lot and an adjoining victory garden
were plowed under and fenced in several months after our snowman building. That
snowman was therefore history in the making. For never again would a Frosty rise on
that hallowed ground, which in due time would be a parking garage for a
six-story building.
The snowman-building story wouldn’t be complete without
mentioning the neighborhood tough who materialized and assisted us with our task.
My friend and I were on tenterhooks in the company of this uninvited visitor.
With good reason, we feared he might cause trouble and—quite possibly—knock
down our snowman. But life is full of surprises. Without an entourage to
encourage destruction and mayhem, the punk from the next block pitched in and
all went well in the fledgling moments of the New Year 1971.
Forty-seven years have since passed. My then best friend
isn’t my friend anymore. No acrimonious breakup to report. Childhood friends
aren’t always for keeps. The passage of time sees to that. I’ve seen the
bully boy as an adult and we said hello to one another. I really should have
thanked him for not knocking down the snowman. I don’t see him on Facebook, but
see plenty of his kind from the past. In their adult incarnations, most of them
relish recounting such tales of knocking down someone else’s snowman in their
misspent youths, which, by the way, they think were peachy-keen.
A year ago—on New Year’s Day 2017—I visited Manhattan in the
morning and waded through the remains of the previous night’s New Year’s Eve
bash. There were concrete barriers everywhere and the area mailboxes were all
padlocked. It’s not only going to be frigid when the ball drops at Times Square
a couple of nights from now, but security will be even tighter than last year. I
read where two million people are going to be in attendance. Being there on the
last night of the year has never been on my to-do list. It’s not on my bucket
list, either.
On January 1, 2017, I spied a sign in a shuttered Manhattan
eatery window. It read: “We are closed for Happy New Year.” The Wishful
Thinking Department, I daresay. In the waning days and hours of 2017, I can’t
help but note the movie in the theaters about Winston Churchill called Darkest
Hour. Mike Huckabee recently compared Donald Trump to Churchill. And
Senator Orrin Hatch thinks the Trump presidency may be the “greatest ever.”
Churchill, Washington, and Lincoln—to name just a few—are no doubt rolling over
in their graves. When I was eight years old and building that snowman at the start
of a new year, it was a simpler time—for me at least. It wasn’t so simple for
those fighting in Vietnam or those receiving draft notices in the mail. Darkest
hours are in the eyes of the beholder, I guess. So, what will 2018 bring? A happy new
year? I can’t say. I can only say there won’t be any snowman building in the lot.
(Photos from the personal collection of Nicholas Nigro)
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