Tuesday, July 29, 2025
It Is the Heat...and the Humidity
Monday, July 21, 2025
Mum’s Not the Word Anymore
When I attended Cardinal Spellman High School all those years ago, students typically had a “free period”—or two in some instances—each and every school day. We were confronted with several options during these much-appreciated respites from the educational grind. Visiting the cafeteria was a popular option, which I often did during non-lunch periods—the calm before or after the storms, as it were. Another possibility was the school’s library, where absolute quiet was not only the rule, but enforced without exception and with an iron fist by chief librarian Sister Mary Louise. What was dubbed “quiet study,” in a classroom with a faculty monitor, was a benign choice. Mum was the word, but without Attila the Nun waiting to pounce like a frog on a fly. Finally, students could attend the also monitored “loud study”—as I so cleverly called it in my witty teen years—and kibbitz with one another without fear of reprobation.
It was an era where quiet was expected in certain bailiwicks like libraries. I distinctly remember my local public library in the 1970s. You could hear a pin drop in that place. The librarians were quick to “shush” violators of the established protocols. Nowadays, of course, the library experience has changed. Kids use computers there to play interactive online games with sound and no earphones. Noise that everyone can hear. Multiply that by five, six, seven, or eight, and it’s disconcerting. Throw in personal phone conversations and it’s a raucous party room. There is no more shushing in libraries—at least around here—and talk is both cheap and earsplitting.
A few months back, I was summoned to jury duty, which eluded me somehow for thirty years. That, too, was a much louder experience than in the past. In the 1990s and earlier, there were no big screen TVs in the jury assembly room tuned into annoying game shows and obnoxious talk fests with the volume turned way, way up. My prior memories of serving were on the serene side. One could talk in the rooms, but there was no music or deafening televisions to intrude on the noble civic service waiting game. Prospective jurors brought books and newspapers with them.
Loud distractions are here to stay, I guess. But why, pray tell, do eateries or doctors’ waiting rooms need TVs? I’d rather not be subject to The View with my burger and fries or before learning that I have a terminal illness and only six months to live. A healthy portion of the masses fear quiet contemplation. In my neighborhood, modified cars, motorcycles, and scooters traverse once quiet—or quieter—streets and most people don’t bat an eye. Sports venues blast music—and not of the elevator or organist variety—to fill in every moment of inactivity on the fields of play. I suppose in this age of short attention spans, noise—and the louder the better—calms those afflicted.
Lastly, a footnote taking me back to that more peaceful age: Upon graduation from high school, I worked in a small retail shop called Pet Nosh—owned by my older brother and a neighbor—in Yonkers, just north of the Bronx. Often in its nascent days, I was the sole employee on the premises. One morning, two customers arrived together—two Sisters of Charity—that I knew from my secondary educational experience. It was none other than the librarian and an administrator/teacher, who I had for a course called "Finite Math." Only three years removed from high school, my legs got a little wobbly in their presence. They didn’t recognize me, though, and I debated whether I should declare: “I know who you are, ladies!” I didn’t because, after all, I was a quiet young man living in quieter times. In retrospect, I wish I had done the big reveal. They were very pleasant outside of the confines of Cardinal Spellman. Yes, quietude has its place in certain places and is sorely missed.
Sunday, July 13, 2025
This Day in History
Thirty-six years ago tonight the lights went out at Shea Stadium. Give or take a couple of minutes, the time was 9:34 p.m. Save a handful of Rockaway, Queens neighborhoods not served by local utility Con Edison, the rest of New York City also went dark. I was not in attendance of this historic Mets’ game versus the Chicago Cubs, but I always wished I had been on what turned out to be a night to remember. I happened to be a long away from home—on a family vacation in a place called Chadwick Beach along the New Jersey Shore—and listening to the game on my favorite radio of all-time. It was a durable Christmas gift that also picked up the audio of local television stations.
Ironically, as things turned out, our neighbors were back in the Bronx, instead of on vacation, when the city went dark and put their air conditioning on ice. I know they didn't see it that way, but I recall thinking how lucky they were to be back home, sweating and suffering, watching and waiting, for the lights and the air conditioners to come back on. Such was the passion of youth.
Monday, June 30, 2025
The Summers of Sam’s
Sunday, June 29, 2025
Smell Tale Signs
When I stepped outside last evening, the summertime humidity—after a brief respite from the season’s first heat wave—had returned. The scent of the warm, stagnant air struck an olfactory chord. Not necessarily an unpleasant one. I have some fond memories of the oppressive heat-and-humidity one-two punch. Of course, I must venture back several decades to retrieve them. Once upon a time, when the calendar read June, July, and August, muggy, clammy weather was expected and accepted. The way it was. And as a kid, summer, regardless of what Mother Nature had in store, spelled fun, frolic, and freedom.
This mundane adult experience of mine inspired recollections of other smells from past summers. I grew
up in a Bronx neighborhood with many alleyways separating single- and multi-family
homes. In summertime, especially, with windows thrown open, aromas seeped out
and distinguished neighbors from one another.
For instance, pungent cooking odors were commonplace at dinnertime, with lingering residues in the off-hours, too. One family unleashed a truly durable scent—uniquely theirs—into the great outdoors. I’d describe it as an amalgam of various foods, grease, and cat urine. They cooked and consumed all their meals in the basement of their home, which was also their feline friend’s exclusive domicile. The cat had free run down there and napped everywhere, including on the family dinner table. Having spent some time in said basement, I can say without exaggeration that it was a grimy, even gag-worthy, environment with dark, green-painted walls complementing the ickiness. But it had its charm, too. Contrarily, their upstairs living room had a bright museum feel with modern, polished furniture covered in plastic. The kitchen was Martha Stewart-worthy.
In fact, many families left their singular calling cards in the summer stillness. In those days gone by, home-cooked meals were the norm. My aunt—who lived below us with my grandmother—informed my brothers and I that we often smelled like French fries after supper. While growing up, we ate a whole lot of potatoes in many incarnations, but French fries definitely ruled. My father purchased fifty-pound bags of spuds on Arthur Avenue—Little Italy in the Bronx. Neither the temperature nor the relative humidity interfered with the daily routine.
With screen
doors operational in the summer months, the scents of French fries, fish, and garlic
often wafted in the still evening air. I recall a tenant family next-door who—young
and old alike—smoked like chimneys and drank like fish. Their robust malodor
seeped through walls and played as well indoors as outdoors. Their potent stench
endured through thick and thin and was not seasonal. Imagine the wafting
scent from a neighborhood watering hole on a hot and humid summer’s eve—in the
1970s, when smoking was permitted—and there you have it.
The 1970s was also an era when people still hung their wash out to dry outside on clotheslines. Certain detergents—of the powdered variety only— differentiated families, with some clothes fresh-scented and others not so much. Naturally, a defining feature that often dictated the family-scent fingerprint was personal hygiene. Let’s just say that some folks weren’t as clean as others. And body odors commingling with cooking, smoking, drinking, filthy bathrooms, and pets leaves a memorable and strong smell memory.
Finally, take me out to the ballpark. Now that was a summertime bouquet that warms the cockles of my heart. The hot dogs and the beer. It was a unique combo for sure and unforgettable. But attending baseball games also necessitated sitting next to strangers in the night, who often brought with them their scents. And on hot and humid summer evenings, they weren’t always appreciated. Fortunately, the aromas of over-priced franks and watery brews always superseded their nauseating body odors and life-shortening second-hand smoke. It was stinky summertime after all, and you could take it or leave it.
(Photos
from the personal collection of Nicholas Nigro)
Saturday, June 28, 2025
The Egg Sandwich Story
Friday, June 27, 2025
The Summer Wind
As I recall from my driver's education, a Stop Sign means that one has to come to a complete stop before proceeding. I guess that's not taught in driver's ed anymore.